Training with Me is Service, Use & aBuse: nothing more, nothing less. I am very happy to see this description has sparked so much discussion! :) The term aBuse should not be confused with negative and deconstructive Mastery, or what you see on lowgrade television programs, but quite the opposite. aBuse, in My House, is having the slave engage in activities she would not do on her own and pushing both the mental and physical boundaries she is currently trapped in. It is a dissolution of that which makes the slave-to-be the unhappy soul that she is when she arrives at My doorstep. Thus, I aBuse that which presents itself as an obstacle to her feeling of completeness at My feet.

For training petitions to serve as My House submissive, include a personal statement, what you hope to both give and gain, prior experience, and what you have to offer Me -- and why you should have the privilege to be at My feet above all other applicants. submissive or slave does not mean low self-esteem. A humble, but skilled, man who says he is not skilled is not being honest.

The unasked question many Masters and slaves should ask themselves: What do I want?

My personal answer:

she derives untold amounts of pleasure from serving her Master. My collar is the source of her inspiration and strength.

she understands she is a direct reflection of Me and acts accordingly.

her focus is always on His happiness, comfort and needs. she delights in the fact that she exists for Him and Him alone. she thirsts for His touch, His glance, His energy, but never complains when she feels she is not getting all that she wants -- she never complains.

she cooks amazing meals.

her attention to detail is unmatched. she is His source of positive energy.

she craves to be used by Him over and over again -- even when she is exhausted and feels she can give no more, she gives. she loves how He uses her like an object or whore until she can take it no more, and just when she is about to break, He is there to embrace her sobbing whithering body, bringing her safely back from the dark places He has just taken her.

she appreciates how all of her darkest and most embarrasing desires are now fulfilled by His whim, she can finally be herself. her gratitude is so overwhelming, she cannot breath without knowing He is happy and that all of His needs are met, no matter what those needs may be.

she views her limits as limits upon His happiness. she appreciates how He knows just when to push them, while at the same time, helping her realize how wonderful the absence of those limits are.

she is a hard working student under His direction and guidance. she completes all assignments on time. her devotion to her Master comes through in everything she does, from service, to proving her love under His whip, to writing an insightful and meaningful essay for His review.

she is My slave, My property, My personal assistant, and My all around girl-Friday. A properly trained and well behaved slave will be at My feet until her final breath coats the heel of My boot in total service, surrender and bliss that only a slave can experience...that only a Master deserves.