BDSM for the Next Generation
The unasked question many Masters and slaves should ask themselves: What do I want?
My personal answer:
she derives untold amounts of pleasure from serving her Master. My collar is the source of her inspiration and strength.
she understands she is a direct reflection of Me and acts accordingly.
her focus is always on His happiness, comfort and needs. she delights in the fact that she exists for Him and Him alone. she thirsts for His touch, His glance, His energy, but never complains when she feels she is not getting all that she wants -- she never complains.
she cooks amazing meals.
her attention to detail is unmatched. she is His source of positive energy.
she craves to be used by Him over and over again -- even when she is exhausted and feels she can give no more, she gives. she loves how He uses her like an object or whore until she can take it no more, and just when she is about to break, He is there to embrace her sobbing withering body, bringing her safely back from the dark places He has just taken her.
she appreciates how all of her darkest and most embarrassing desires are now fulfilled by His whim, she can finally be herself. her gratitude is so overwhelming, she cannot breath without knowing He is happy and that all of His needs are met, no matter what those needs may be.
she views her limits as limits upon His happiness. she appreciates how He knows just when to push them, while at the same time, helping her realize how wonderful the absence of those limits are.
she is a hard working student under His direction and guidance. she completes all assignments on time. her devotion to her Master comes through in everything she does, from service, to proving her love under His whip, to writing an insightful and meaningful essay for His review.
she is My slave, My property, My personal assistant, and My all around girl-Friday. A properly trained and well behaved slave will be at My feet until her final breath coats the heel of My boot in total service, surrender and bliss that only a slave can experience...that only a Master can receive.
DISCLOSURE & TRANSPARENCY
Keep in mind, like a coin, everyone has two sides (or more) and once you have been around someone long enough, you will eventually see both (all) of them.
Living the Blaise life is more spectacular than the pages of this site can express. But what really defines Blaise living is openness, acceptance and integrity. Integrity is not perfection, in fact, it usually appears to be the opposite as a just man doing what is right and good cannot always appear good and just. Living a life with integrity requires a high level of self awareness and acceptance that many "friends" will part ways with you once you draw that proverbial line in the sand while doing what one feels is the right thing to do. To be honest with ourselves and others means exposing our not-so-perfect aspects of our soul to the world while holding faith that those who remain love us for our true, complete and ever evolving nature, imperfections and all.
The positive qualities that you may see in Me, that may have drawn you to me, are real and well developed - yes i may indulge in bouts of selfishness , antisocial moods, cunning, emotional sadism, manipulation, more selfishness, passive aggressiveness, apathy, emotional vampirism, sarcasm, dark humor at the expense of others, recklessness, and ruthlessness that I primarily save for My profession...mostly.
My point? I feel that full disclosure, honesty and real-time transparency are the actions we can take to find happy and rewarding relationships. Too many times i hear from subs that their information flow is restricted, they are not allowed to make friends that are not cleared by their 'Master'. A Master has nothing to fear from your self education. A Master can show all his flaws and still count on the loyalty of those in His service because He has been completely open about His philosophy, expectations, values, morals, ethics, standards, responsibilities, and goals and he owns His actions and decisions, even when He makes a mistake.
Simon - "A hater can trash talk all day long to My slaves. There is nothing that can be said that they do not have full knowledge of. Similarly, an attempt to sway their attentions would go up in flames. They are critical thinkers in their own right, and they know what they want. Any information they gather that causes them to question is a learning opportunity. I welcome their challenges and blooming minds. Who wants a submissive slave?"
To my girls, I offer simplicity. Please me, serve my desires, and in return You will feel my love and Mastery. My goal is to grasp and hold the very heart of the connection that can exist between us and burn away everything else that gets in the way. Doubt, Fear, Insecurity, Guilt - when they manifest we will use them to explore and deepen our connection. Questions, Crisis of Faith, Growing Pains - all just part of the journey.