Simon's Bio:

Since his introduction into the kinksexual lifestyle in the early 90s at the tender age of 19, the original “Kinkstar” Simon Blaise has rocked countless stages, taught classes, and has attended major kink events across the globe from the elite clubs of Hollywood to prestigious engagements in Japan, the Middle East, and Europe, all with the intention of sharing his techniques and philosophies with thousands of his fellow kinksters. Despite his international fame, Simon remains a humble student of kink who continues to study various expressions and theories on kink such as BDSM, D/s relationships, various forms of energy play, tantric sex, and unlocking the mysteries of how men and women can connect, on multiple levels.

After witnessing widespread discrimination born from society’s ignorance about the kinkysexual lifestyle he and thousands live everyday, Simon made the decision to come out as a kinkysexual in the hopes to support the growing movement towards equality for all kinkysexuals. Simon ultimately aims to be a part of making the kinkysexual lifestyle more acceptable in the minds of mainstream America on both the private, and more importantly, the governmental fronts by debunking the current stereotypes which continue to force many kinkysexuals to remain in “the closet”.

Simon has revolutionized fire play with his invention “Blaise Sticks” and suspension originally referred to as "Blaise Wrap", but best referred to as “Kink Wrap”. Simon teaches courses on fire play, polyvinyl Kink Wrap suspension, floggings, canning, single tails, bondage, violet wands, D/s relationships, and much more.

Simon’s current project is continuing his research for his book “The KinkSutra”, which will explore the different ways men and women can enjoy the rewards of having an exciting relationship that is both rich in sexual fulfillment and emotional significance.

On 10-10-10, Simon unveiled "Kinkstar", the world's first kinkysexual lifestyle brand that represents and celebrates our kinkysexual way of life. Wearing Kinkstar not only supports the kinkysexual movement, it moves everyone closer to a society in which kinkysexuals needn’t take great pains to hide who they are. The subtle stylized logo also makes it possible for kinkysexuals around the world to identify each other for those who wear Kinkstar, while those who are not in the know are none the wiser!

To further Kinkstar’s cause, a portion of the proceeds will be donated to the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF) and Kink Aware Professionals (KAP).

WARNING & DISCLOSURE

Keep in mind, like a coin, everyone has two sides and once you have been around someone long enough, you will eventually see both of them.

The good that you may see in Me, that may have drawn you to My feet is balanced, as well as a 36 year old man can be balanced, with its counterpart that includes, but is not limited to, selfishness (meaning I have no problem using another for My own pleasure and doing nothing for them in return and always thinking of Myself first), antisocial moods, cunning, emotional sadism, being manipulative, more selfishness, passive aggressiveness, apathy, being emotionally vampiric at times, generally unemotional unless it comes to humor and that's more dark than light, the ability to utterly loose all interest in, and desire for, a girl the moment she directly disobeys Me even once or, lose all desire in her if she generally displeases Me on a consistent basis after numerous correction and notice, occasional reckless behavior that is somewhat risky on paper, and a touch of ruthlessness that I primarily save for My profession, mostly.

Although I listen to the KOST at night to fall asleep and love romantic comedies, I do not share the belief that there is a "one" or have the emotion "love" that is usually filled with the initial flowers &, gifts nonsense (I do not buy My girls anything, it's all 50/50), constant affirmations (I do tell My girls when they are doing good, bad or scraping by), promises of eternal unconditional acceptance (I offer simplicity: you make Me happy, you are allowed to stay), or the later stages of "love" that devolves into 2 a.m. interrogations from either side as to "where this relationship is going", or most of the other ways "love" is generally understood and expressed. My project is to grasp and hold the very heart of the connection that can exist between a Man and a woman and burn away everything else that gets in the way.

 

 

House of Blaise:

I care a great deal for My girls, hold them in the highest of regards, and each girl who serves Me now, or who has served Me in the past, has a special and unique place in My heart.

apple Blaise is currently wearing My collar as My slave who is a sweet and loyal soul. apple is a treat to own and it is an honor to possess such a girl.

modesty Blaise recently steadfastly walked through the flames of My collaring ritual and earned the privilege of wearing My collar as My slave -- she entrusted Me with her slave heart the moment it blossomed before O/our eyes.

A House submissive position is currently open. 

The House pet position is currently open.

The House mentee position is well filled by Darling Nikki who continues to impress me with her hard work and dedication.

I am open to reviewing training petitions at this time for two House submissives and one House pet.

If you are DECLINED: I am very selective for not only Myself, and My angels, but also for the petitioner whom I must decide how far, if at all, she can travel down the rabbit hole of Life and BDSm with Me, without losing herself. Most of the petitions I decline have little to do with beauty or age (and almost all so far, for the last year or so have had beauty in spades) experience or willingness, and much to do with, in the words of Master Miagi, how strong of a root I feel you have, and you will need more than strength, you will need inner-peace and a healthy spirit that can embrace and engage experiences, states of being and ideas that few will ever come upon or confront...it is said I can fracture personalities, shift paradigms, and even traumatize a girl -- when considering your petition, I must ask Myself, are you the delicate swan or the powerful phoenix, for only the latter may cross the threshold of My House.

Although it has worked well in the past, there is no longer an alpha/beta system in My House as I see it as a potential vehicle for the ego and hot-bed for expectations that curtail the happiness of all involved, the risk of which, is outweighed by the potential lack of harmony such a system can bring if any position beyond slave or submissive goes to one's head. To really bake Y/your noodle, I have been thinking about the very position/title of slave or submissive as being just as dangerous for some.

The beauty about life, and especially the BDSm lifestyle, at least for Me, lies in practicing the art of trial and error with everything, perpetually questioning beliefs and traditions, especially My own, and never taking unhappiness for an answer, all while keeping an eye on the horizon and the helm pointed forward. 

For now, all girls are on the same level and all bring something different and unique.

Petitioning Simon for Training:

I continue to be honored with each training petition submitted. Almost all were well written and thoughtful and it is always a pleasure to read them as I found Myself learning at least one thing from each of them. :) 

When drafting a petition, pay careful attention to your spelling and grammar. When you write, you are not only representing yourself to Me, but yourself. I will say that one paragraph is never enough and ten pages are far too many. ;)

As for what should be contained with in a petition? I offer no answer. What you do on your own will allow me to better gauge your level of commitment to life in general and give me a glimpse into those standards you impose upon yourself as a strong, healthy, educated (life or institutional) and stable individual.  

If after reviewing the petition I believe the interaction can progress to the next level, the girl will be afforded a more in-depth warning and disclosure primarily aimed at helping vanilla-minded and goal oriented monogamous girls to run far far away and for compatible girls to see what I am, what I am about and how I view life so there will be no misunderstandings on their part as to what kind of person I am. ;)